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The Observer, the Parts, and the Heart: Integrating Michael Singer, Internal Family Systems, and HeartMath
The goal is not to eliminate thoughts, emotions, or parts. The goal is to change your relationship to them.
Abby Ampuja
Jun 134 min read


"It's Just a Part!"
I like to think of the Self as being like the sun--it never really goes away, but sometimes we can’t see it and it seems like it’s gone when the clouds (or “Parts”) roll in.
Abby Ampuja
Aug 19, 20252 min read


The Kindest Thing
Self-Compassion has helped me to shift from asking, “How much can I achieve?” to "What's the kindest thing I can do for myself right now?"
Abby Ampuja
Jan 17, 20253 min read


Stop “Shoulding” on Yourself!
It’s been an interesting week as I coach and support folks through their various triumphs and challenges in life. One theme that seems to...
Abby Ampuja
Apr 16, 20243 min read


"Welcoming All Parts": An Introduction to IFS
In Western society, we have largely been taught to think of the psyche as a “mono-mind.” If we’ve been conditioned to see ourselves...
Abby Ampuja
Jan 7, 20244 min read
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